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Being an avoidant attachment style, I can tell you that it isn’t that we want disconnection but we prefer and have adjusted to being alone so well that unless you fit into our solitude, we prefer the former.

Mindset 1 = mind killer  
- ´but what if i had sold there´   
- ´but if only i had done that´   
- ´i could have had this much now´      

Mindset 2 = mind relaxer   
- ´gratitude that at least I came this far´   
- ´new opportunities will always come´   
- ´life is so much more…

“Most humans are never fully present in the now, because unconsciously they believe that the next moment must be more important than this one. But then you miss your whole life, which is never not now.”

“I want everything quiet and simple. For me: walking barefoot, sitting still, reading, listening to stories, and now and then telling some myself. Eating fruit, drinking milk, longing to create, but with patience and many insights.”


— Rainer Maria Rilke, from a letter to Lou Salomé witten c. March 1904

Your experience of life is not based on what happens to you but what you pay attention to.

Pieces of me exist in every person I’ve ever loved 🤍

“Nature loves courage. You make the commitment and nature will respond to that commitment by removing impossible obstacles. Dream the impossible dream and the world will not grind you under, it will lift you up. This is the trick. This is what all these teachers and philosophers who really counted, who really touched the alchemical gold, this is what they understood. This is the shamanic dance in the waterfall. This is how magic is done. By hurling yourself into the abyss and discovering it’s a feather bed.” — Terence McKenna